Divorce mediation can provide a more collaborative approach to resolving the important issues involved in ending a marriage. Preparing for your first mediation session can help you feel more confident, organized, and ready to make informed decisions.
Gather Important Financial Information
Before mediation begins, gather documents relating to your finances, including income information, bank and investment accounts, retirement accounts, real estate, debts, insurance, and other significant assets. Having accurate financial information available can make discussions about property division and financial support more productive.
Think About Your Priorities
Take some time to consider what matters most to you and where you may be willing to compromise. If you have children, think about parenting schedules, decision-making responsibilities, holidays, vacations, and other issues that may need to be addressed.
Understand That Mediation Is a Process
You do not need to have every issue resolved before your first session. Mediation provides an opportunity to identify areas of agreement, discuss areas of disagreement, and work toward solutions that both spouses can accept.
Ask Questions
Your first mediation session is a good time to ask questions about the process, the issues that need to be addressed, and what happens after an agreement is reached. Depending on the circumstances, each spouse may also choose to consult with their own attorney for independent legal advice.
Approach Mediation With an Open Mind
Successful mediation depends on communication and a willingness to consider reasonable solutions. Preparing emotionally as well as financially can help you approach the process with greater clarity and confidence.
Divorce does not have to mean preparing for a battle. With thoughtful preparation and experienced guidance, mediation can provide a constructive way for couples to address their concerns and work toward a mutually acceptable agreement.
Attorney Christina Lana Shine, Esq. provides divorce mediation services for individuals and couples in Williamsville and throughout the Greater Buffalo, New York region, helping clients navigate the process with care, clarity, and confidence. Please contact me with any questions.